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Share the bibliography:Parenting without stress: how to raise responsible kids while keeping a life of your own

Time: 2016.3.6 2:30pm to 5:00pm

Location: Fordham University (113 West 60th Street), the address will be notified after registration.

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Sharer profile:

Panjun Wang

Panjun Wang is from Wuxi, China and has earned a Master degree in Finance from University of Maryland College Park. He's now working as a financial professional in Bloomberg LP in New York City. As a father of a 22-month-old boy named Aric Wang, Panjun has always been interested in providing positive influence, building in responsibility and character and developing good habits and reinforcement for children. For Panjun, education is simply a process of communicating, learning and growing with children. The book's philosophy is aligned with Panjun's Way of raising responsible children and it provides numerous useful techniques and examples to achieve this goal.


Moderator introduction:

Fan Wei

Advocating the radiance of humanity and the unknown truth. Listen to all the good things in silence and listen to each story quietly. Look for clues to the corner and learn about the self that cannot be confirmed or falsified. Follow the inner guidelines and allow regrets, but ask for no regrets. Smile is dedicated to the happiness that truly belongs to you.

Share the bibliographic introduction:

Parenting without stress: how to raise responsible kids while keeping a life of your own

Discipline is critical for parents to raise responsible and contributing children in the family and for the society. For parents struggling with a lack of educating experience, most people usually go with the way they were raised by their parents. There are frustration, stress and feeling Of inability when we are misunderstood by our parents. And very likely, we may pass the frustration, stress and bad feelings to our children.

Dr. Marvin Marshall has clearly done sufficient study and experiments on different parenting styles and made wonderful recommendations to parents and young couples about how to reduce stress and increase effectiveness. The key is to treat your children with the same respects you treat mature adults with, Having adequate guidance and choices and encourage, trust and empower them to take responsibilities. By doing so, your children will eventually take over their lives and live independently and happily as responsible and contributing members of the society.

Subject and comment
Parents have different types: the dictating authoritative Tiger parents, the sweet overprotecting spoiling parents, the careless having parents and yelling and spanking brutal parents. This book Parenting Without Stress is promoting a parenting style of an effective coach with clear discipline and sufficient guidance, of a good teacher with gentleness, care and love, of wisdom with the patience to nurture characteristics, intelligence and responsibility.

This style of parenting takes more intelligence and efforts to raise children but reduces much more stress from parenting, saves you a lot of time and builds wonderful relationship between you and your children. As a result, you will earn more respects from your children, experience More joy of learning and teaching and have a wonderful family.

The specific techniques mentioned in the book include specifying rules and goals, providing choices and possible results, painting positive pictures in children's minds, help children visualize what you want them to do, offer help and creative solutions.

1. What would you do if your daughter yelled at her little brother and slammed the door
2. What would you say if your son wants to go out and play with friends
3. What would you do if you daughter refuse to make her bed before breakfast
4. What would you do if your son refuse to take medicine
5. What would you do if your son using the fork tapping rhythm on the table at dinner

About the Author:

Marvin Mashall

Dr. Marvin Marshall is an American educator, researcher, writer, and lecturer who is one of today's most influential authorities on discipline (CM Charles, Building Classroom Discipline, 10th Ed). He has presented to schools, school districts, and governments in 44 Of the United States and in 19 countries on 5 continents. He is a former elementary, middle, and high school teacher; counselor; assistant principal; elementary and high school principal, and a district director of education. His first publication, “Fostering Social Responsibility,” published by Phi Delta Kappa International, is the precursor to the book. His approach to discipline and learning that is now used around the world. His “Parenting without Stress: How to Raise Responsible Kids While Keeping a Life of Your Own, His multi-award winning book. His numerous articles and publications are available at His monthly newsletter, “Promoting Responsibility and Learning” has over 15,000 su Bscribers.



Highly interactive activity process:

1) The sharer introduces the book and expresses his own opinion (about 15 minutes);

2) Each participant expresses his or her own feelings (about 2 minutes/person);

3) All participants will be divided into small groups to communicate and propose a topic-related question;

4) Participants discuss the issues raised and show their speculation. (about 2 minutes / person);

5) After the event, welcome friends who are still unfinished to join the dinner and continue to talk.


friendly reminder:

1) Participants are not required to prepare in advance, and the sharer will provide the information needed for discussion

2) Please try to be on time to avoid missed sharing of the bibliography

3) Please bring your ID

4) If you can't find the venue, please send a message in the event temporary WeChat group or Facebook 麓山学社 Group, we will respond promptly

5) The number of people per reading will be limited to 18 people. Please invite your friends to register as soon as possible. After completing the form and scanning into the temporary group, the registration will be successful. The full registration will be in the waitlist.


All the speeches of the participants of the event do not represent the position of the school.



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