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分享人: 王攀峻

分享书目：Parenting without stress: how to raise responsible kids while keeping a life of your own

时间：2016.3.6下午2:30pm至5:00pm

地点：Fordham University (113 West 60th Street)校内，具体地址报名后通知。

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分享人简介:

王攀峻(Panjun Wang)

Panjun Wang is from Wuxi, China and has earned a Master degree in Finance from University of Maryland College Park. He’s now working as a financial professional in Bloomberg LP in New York City. As a father of a 22-month-old boy named Aric Wang, Panjun has always been interested in providing positive influence, building in responsibility and character and developing good habits and reinforcement for children. For Panjun, education is simply a process of communicating, learning and growing with children. The book’s philosophy is aligned with Panjun’s way of raising responsible children and it provides numerous useful techniques and examples to achieve this goal.

 

主持人介绍：

樊昊

崇尚人性的光辉和未知的真理。默默欣赏一切美好，静静倾听每段故事。寻找角落的线索，了解无法证实也无法证伪的那个自我。追随内心的指引，允许遗憾，但求无悔。微笑献给真正属于自己的快乐。

分享书目简介:

Parenting without stress: how to raise responsible kids while keeping a life of your own‍

Background
Discipline is critical for parents to raise responsible and contributing children in the family and for the society. For parents struggling with a lack of educating experience, most people usually go with the way they were raised by their parents. There are frustration, stress and feeling of inability when we are misunderstood by our parents. And very likely, we may pass the frustration, stress and bad feelings to our children.

Dr. Marvin Marshall has clearly done sufficient study and experiments on different parenting styles and made wonderful recommendations to parents and young couples about how to reduce stress and increase effectiveness. The key is to treat your children with the same respects you treat mature adults with, provide sufficient guidance and choices and encourage, trust and empower them to take responsibilities. By doing so, your children will eventually take over their lives and live independently and happily as responsible and contributing members of the society.

Subject and comment
Parents have different types: the dictating authoritative Tiger parents, the sweet overprotecting spoiling parents, the careless whatever parents and yelling and spanking brutal parents. This book Parenting Without Stress is promoting a parenting style of an effective coach with clear discipline and sufficient guidance, of a good teacher with gentleness, care and love, of wisdom with the patience to nurture characteristics, intelligence and responsibility.

This style of parenting takes more intelligence and efforts to raise children but reduces much more stress from parenting, saves you a lot of time and builds wonderful relationship between you and your children. As a result, you will earn more respects from your children, experience more joy of learning and teaching and have a wonderful family.

The specific techniques mentioned in the book include specifying rules and goals, providing choices and possible results, painting positive pictures in children’s minds, help children visualize what you want them to do, offer help and creative solutions.

Questions
1. What would you do if your daughter yelled at her little brother and slammed the door
2. What would you say if your son wants to go out and play with friends
3. What would you do if you daughter refuse to make her bed before breakfast
4. What would you do if your son refuse to take medicine
5. What would you do if your son using the fork tapping rhythm on the table at dinner

作者简介：

Marvin Mashall

Dr. Marvin Marshall is an American educator, researcher, writer, and lecturer who is one of today’s most influential authorities on discipline (C.M. Charles, Building Classroom Discipline, 10th Ed). He has presented to schools, school districts, and governments in 44 of the United States and in 19 countries on 5 continents. He is a former elementary, middle, and high school teacher; counselor; assistant principal; elementary and high school principal, and a district director of education. His first publication, “Fostering Social Responsibility,” published by Phi Delta Kappa International, is the precursor to the book. His approach to discipline and learning that is now used around the world. His “Parenting without Stress: How to Raise Responsible Kids While Keeping a Life of Your Own,” is a multi-award winning book. His numerous articles and publications are available at www.MarvinMarshall.com. His monthly newsletter, “Promoting Responsibility and Learning” has over 15,000 subscribers.

 

 

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